6: How to Be a Better Listener: Listen to Understand

Do you look like you’re listening while your brain is already drafting your response? In this episode, Carrie Hensler breaks down the difference between listening to respond and listening to understand, and why strong communication starts with actually paying attention to what someone is saying. You’ll learn how to notice your inner “draft,” let silence do its work, and ask one more question before adding your own story, opinion, or advice. Carrie also shares a personal story about realizing she was being a “social bulldozer” and what it taught her about listening in relationships and leadership. In this episode: Why looking engaged doesn’t always mean you’re listening How to catch yourself mentally drafting your response Why silence can make conversations better One simple question that can deepen connection How better listening strengthens relationships and leadership Resources mentioned: Free IMPACT Energy Assessment: carriehensler.com/impact-opt-in